无意间看到一句话:
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一直在寻找幸福,以为幸福就在可追逐的未来.于是我双眼保持眺望,双耳仔细聆听,惟恐疏忽略过,直到现在我才明白流过的泪\挽过的手\美好的回忆...那些所谓的曾经,就是幸福...
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那么
幸福藏在哪里?
答曰
在回忆里
一直在想幸福是什么,终于发觉只有在差距下回首过去才能联想到幸福...
其实该珍惜的东西太多,想珍惜的因了时间的桎梏都且珍惜不了,何况那些未在意的许许多多...
一不小心自己也沦为悲观主义者了,忧郁找上了我...
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I really enjoy rainy days because of its special meaning .When I was a little girl, my parents told me that I was born on a rainy day. Up to now, I can still remember such kind of scene. When it began to rain, I loved to be going out, to be caught in the rain, and would never go home until all my clothes were wet. At that time, my grandma would run after and shouting at me: “come back quickly, or you will not be allowed to have dinner!” Although she said like that, I’d pretend to be a deaf person and laugher her secretly. Because those things still will never happen, let alone pay a sever penalty. I was so lucky that I could just do what I want, and never care about any thing around me, especially other people’s feelings. Fortunately, a little thing has changed my mind.
Half a year ago, before I came to New Zealand. I spent a holiday by traveling to somewhere. At that time, where and when were not very important to me. However, a thing which happened on the last day of that holiday left me a deep impression .I promise that I will never forget that day, because it made me stat to think about my life and what sort of things should I look for?
Here is the story. When I left the railway station, suddenly I had a strong premonition that it would rain soon. In fact only within fine minutes, the cooler of everything became dark, even the ground and sky. I could not tell green from blue. The only thing I could see clearly is the crowed that were coming and going. When I walked to an exit, there was a large number of people guening up for getting outside, because the exit is narrowness, probably being waiter for long time, people began to push and squeezed with others, and scene seemed to have a bit get out of control. A little boy’s voice unexpectedly broken such kind of situation: “if people stand in a line and go out one by one, it will be easier for us to solve the waiting problem.” After hearing hose words, people began to calm down, and did the same what as the little boy bad said. To my surprise the order soon returned to normal. People had umbrellas would make more rooms for those ones who had not. Although it was still raining, the waiting problem was solved by the little boy. Look at his appearance, may be he was no more than 7 years old. Thanks to his parents, who have provided him a better education since he was a child. He didn’t just think about himself, he’s so clever that he can work out the problem in a appropriate way while others would rather choose considering more about themselves. Sometimes even though lots of have more knowledge, they can not solve a problem in a correct way. Especially those kinds of problems, which are related to profits between his workmates and himself.
It is a small story .Everyday happens everywhere. While from that I learned: it is not enough for people to think about themselves. Especially when you get in troubles, you need to think more about other people’s feeling. It will definitely help you a lot. Do remember one of the important factors in is let others feel happy. Try to give more holes to people avoid fighting against others and get rid of selfish.
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